Monday, June 1, 2009

what advice do you give a friend...

what advice do you give a friend when she is madly in love with her boyfriend but then out of the blue another friend tells her he "loves" her... and to make it all worse he is also in a long term relationship... and yet worse they are all good friends!

she has no feelings for this other guy... never thought of him in any other way... yet now she has to make the decision to say somethin to her female friend or let it pass... she has to decide whether to tell her man and risk him gettin angry at the other guy and not wanting to be friends... or him to get mad at her and think she initiated it... and all of this is so suprising for any on looker...

i really want to help her and tell her good advice but its hard... i couldnt imagine being in her shoes and having to deal with all that...

this last year and a half i have learned so much about love and relationships and i dont feel anywhere near strong or confident enough to give her advice... i can support her in a decision she makes but thats the extent of it... am i a bad friend... i dont want to give her wrong advise and i honestly dont think i can even give her advise... i dont know what i would do either...

2 comments:

  1. Tell her to watch that movie Serendipity. It's a LOVE story but its pretty much based on "FATE". When it's MEANT to be, it will be. There is no need to RUSH things.

    Seriously. I JUST watched it last night. This situation is JUST like the movie.

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